jJa we beginnen altijd met een vrijblijvende intake
Hello man,
Are you an expat man living or working in The Hague? Maybe you have a good job, a nice place to live and lots of things to do — yet you feel something is missing.
You are not the only one. Many men in our expat men’s group in The Hague feel busy and successful on the outside, but still feel alone or stuck in their head. It can be hard to find real connection when you live abroad.
An international men’s circle is a place where you can pause. You take time to get out of your head and feel more at home in your body. You share what really matters to you and listen to other men’s stories too. Nothing is forced. It is not therapy and you do not need to be fixed.
Living and working in The Hague as an expat can be exciting but also stressful. You have left your family and friends behind. You do your best to adapt to a new culture and keep your partner or family happy. But who listens to you?
In our expat men’s group you find other men who understand what it means to be far from home. You get support, honest feedback and real conversations. You discover you are not alone in your challenges or big questions.
Many expat men share the same struggles. Maybe you recognise yourself in these:
If even one of these feels true for you, the international men’s circle in The Hague can help you.
Every evening has a theme about real life. We talk about work stress, being a father or partner, intimacy, purpose or just feeling lost sometimes.
We do simple exercises to connect with our body and relax our mind. You do not have to share anything you do not want. Just listening often helps too.
At the end we sit together for a drink and chat. Many men make new friends here and feel more at home in The Hague.
Joining a men’s circle for expats brings you:
You can take what you learn back into your work, family or relationship.
Our expat men’s group is flexible. You can visit once to try. You decide what feels good for you. There is no forced sharing and no judgement.
We meet each 3 weeks on a Wednesday evening in The Hague.
Doors open at 19.15. We start at 19.30 and finish around 22.00.
There is free parking and we are easy to reach by train, tram or bus, The adres is Douwes Dekkerstreet 69 in Voorburg.
👉 Your first evening is free. Try it and see if this international men’s group in The Hague is for you.
25 Feb
11 Mar
25 Mar
6 May
20 May
3 Jun
17 Jun
1 Jul
If money is an issue for you now, talk to me and we will find a solution.
My name is Ruben Zuilhof. I am a professional coach for men. I guide men’s circles, groups and training days and help men feel strong, clear and connected. I know how it feels to want to do it all alone. You do not have to. You are welcome here.
Come and experience what this expat men’s group can do for you.
jJa we beginnen altijd met een vrijblijvende intake
It is a safe and open space where international men in The Hague meet, talk and support each other. It is not therapy. You share what feels right for you.
No. You can come once to try, every week or just now and then. There is no obligation.
No. It is not therapy and you do not have to fix anything. You learn and grow by sharing and listening.
No. You decide what you share. Many men feel better just by listening and being part of the group.
The circle for expats is in English. You do not need to speak Dutch
International men of different ages and backgrounds — expats, internationals, people working for embassies, companies or NGOs.
Send me a message and come for your first evening for free. You can see if it feels right for you.
I am a professional men’s coach and trainer. Drawing on my expertise in men’s work, I coach men to stand stronger in all areas of life. My expertise has been developed through a wide range of trainings and experiences, including:
Bij Man-Zijn krijgen mannen een veilige en stimulerende context voor persoonlijke ontwikkeling. Dit door groepswerk en 1 op 1 coaching voor mannen.
Ruben werkt provocatief, sensitief en verbindend. Zodat jij kunt groeien in aanwezigheid als man om authentieker en onbevangener te leven.