EN-Men’s Circle and Coaching in the Hague

Expat Men’s Circle The Hague | Connect, Share, Grow Together

Hello man,

Are you an expat man living or working in The Hague? Maybe you have a good job, a nice place to live and lots of things to do — yet you feel something is missing.

You are not the only one. Many men in our expat men’s group in The Hague feel busy and successful on the outside, but still feel alone or stuck in their head. It can be hard to find real connection when you live abroad.

An international men’s circle is a place where you can pause. You take time to get out of your head and feel more at home in your body. You share what really matters to you and listen to other men’s stories too. Nothing is forced. It is not therapy and you do not need to be fixed. 

Why join a men’s circle for expats?

Living and working in The Hague as an expat can be exciting but also stressful. You have left your family and friends behind. You do your best to adapt to a new culture and keep your partner or family happy. But who listens to you?

In our expat men’s group you find other men who understand what it means to be far from home. You get support, honest feedback and real conversations. You discover you are not alone in your challenges or big questions.

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Do you recognise this?

Many expat men share the same struggles. Maybe you recognise yourself in these:

  • You miss deep and honest male friendships.
  • You feel stressed at work and find it hard to relax.
  • You often feel alone with your thoughts.
  • You argue more with your partner since living abroad.
  • You feel you must stay strong for others but forget yourself.

If even one of these feels true for you, the international men’s circle in The Hague can help you.

What do we do in the men’s group?

Every evening has a theme about real life. We talk about work stress, being a father or partner, intimacy, purpose or just feeling lost sometimes.

We do simple exercises to connect with our body and relax our mind. You do not have to share anything you do not want. Just listening often helps too.

At the end we sit together for a drink and chat. Many men make new friends here and feel more at home in The Hague.

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What's in it for you?

Joining a men’s circle for expats brings you:

  • Real connection with other international men.
  • More calm and clarity in your mind.
  • More confidence at work and in your relationship.
  • More energy and strength in daily life.
  • A sense of belonging far from home.

You can take what you learn back into your work, family or relationship.

No pressure, no obligation

Our expat men’s group is flexible. You can visit once to try. You decide what feels good for you. There is no forced sharing and no judgement.

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Practical information

We meet each 3 weeks on a Wednesday evening in The Hague.
Doors open at 19.15. We start at 19.30 and finish around 22.00.
There is free parking and we are easy to reach by train, tram or bus, The adres is Douwes Dekkerstreet 69 in Voorburg.

👉 Your first evening is free. Try it and see if this international men’s group in The Hague is for you.

  • 25 Feb

  • 11 Mar

  • 25 Mar

  • 6 May

  • 20 May

  • 3 Jun

  • 17 Jun

  • 1 Jul

  • One evening: €38
  • Five evenings: €175

If money is an issue for you now, talk to me and we will find a solution.

About Us

My name is Ruben Zuilhof. I am a professional coach for men. I guide men’s circles, groups and training days and help men feel strong, clear and connected. I know how it feels to want to do it all alone. You do not have to. You are welcome here.

Come and experience what this expat men’s group can do for you.

Frequently Asked Questions

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What is an expat men’s group?

It is a safe and open space where international men in The Hague meet, talk and support each other. It is not therapy. You share what feels right for you.

Do I have to come every week?

No. You can come once to try, every week or just now and then. There is no obligation.

Is it therapy?

No. It is not therapy and you do not have to fix anything. You learn and grow by sharing and listening.

Do I have to talk?

No. You decide what you share. Many men feel better just by listening and being part of the group.

What language is spoken?

The circle for expats is in English. You do not need to speak Dutch

Who joins this group?

International men of different ages and backgrounds — expats, internationals, people working for embassies, companies or NGOs.

How do I join for the first time?

Send me a message and come for your first evening for free. You can see if it feels right for you.

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By Ruben Zuilhof,
Coach for Men

I am a professional men’s coach and trainer. Drawing on my expertise in men’s work, I coach men to stand stronger in all areas of life. My expertise has been developed through a wide range of trainings and experiences, including:

  • Co-Active Coaching Schouten en Nelissen
  • NLP Master
  • HBO opleiding Trainer
  • Mind Eyepower
  • Certificaties Werken met Teams
  • Bodywork
Contact Ruben Zuilhof Coach in Gouda and The Hague